Leslie Hughan was a remarkable woman who defied the norms of motherhood. Her story is one of strength, love, and unwavering determination in the face of adversity. A Mother's Journey Through Challenges and Joy
Early Life and Meeting Bryan
Leslie Hughan's story began on February 23, 1983, in Baltimore. She grew up in Glen Burnie and had a life-altering encounter on a high school band trip. She was in the marching band, and Bryan Hughan was in the jazz band. On the bus ride home, she fell asleep on him, and that moment marked the start of their journey together. After graduating from high school, Leslie went on to earn a bachelor's degree from Hood College in Frederick. Her college years were filled with many experiences and friendships. She was class president, dorm president, and involved in various committees. Her open-minded and charismatic nature made her a natural leader who could persuade others to join in on her endeavors.Judie Evans, one of her best friends, recalls her as someone who made people feel special. She was a great listener, remembered important details like upcoming events, and was incredibly supportive and giving.
Marriage and Family
Bryan Hughan proposed to Leslie by dedicating Elton John's "Tiny Dancer" to the couple over the radio. She already knew he had the ring because she had snooped around his room. Their marriage in June 2007 was the start of a new chapter in their lives. Leslie welcomed her first daughter, Virginia, 15 years ago. A few years later, her son, Dexter, was born. And then came the twins, Celia and Benny, who were born at 24 weeks. This brought a whole new set of challenges as she spent many weeks and months in and out of the hospital, ensuring her children received the care they needed.Tory Tanguay, another college friend, described Leslie as "the definition of a superwoman." She seemed to effortlessly handle the chaos of raising a family with medical complex children. Bryan Hughan attributed their ability to stay together through it all to finding humor in stupid places. Whether it was sharing a silly meme or hanging up a portrait of Vigo the Carpathian from "Ghostbusters" in their living room, laughter became their best medicine.
Advocacy and Compassion
Advocacy was another important aspect of Leslie's life. She wouldn't hesitate to give someone a piece of her mind if she saw them parking in a handicapped spot without the proper decal. She also tried to raise awareness about childhood cancer and found joy in helping others going through similar challenges.Charissa Thomas met Leslie at the hospital shortly after she gave birth to twins with medical complexities. They quickly bonded, and when Thomas couldn't produce breast milk, Leslie donated hers. These small acts of kindness showed the depth of her compassion.
Everyday Moments and Memories
Leslie's friends and family will remember her for the big and small moments. She made time for "stupid, childish fun" even while taking on serious issues with a resolve of steel. Judie Evans recalls spending a late night with Leslie buying Ben & Jerry's ice cream and watching "The Office" marathon after the kids went to sleep. Every time Michael Scott did something that should have gotten him fired, they'd switch pints and spill ice cream, but they couldn't stop laughing.Leslie Hughan was not a "typical" mom. She led a life that was filled with love, challenges, and moments of pure joy. Her story is a testament to the power of a mother's love and the strength to overcome any obstacle.
